"What is the point of sex? Is it to have that temporary moment of feeling that you are loved or is it for the physical pleasure? I see no other point to it. The thing is, I know it isn't real love when a couple is having sex... It's wanting to ejaculate..I can most definitely satisfy myself better than a man can. And I love myself more than any man can.
My love is unconditional.... His depends on my physical body & how much I put out. How is sex worth gambling your health with someone who could be lying to you about being clean, or someone who shares a cup with a person who has something contagious in their mouth?
This guy could be cheating on you, putting you at higher risk of being exposed to an STD or any other illness/disease. That isn't love. So what is the point of dating someone? The only difference between dating someone and being friends is sex. Why get feelings involved when they could be deceiving you at any moment."


This is the way I perceive sex and relationships. It came from a poisonous relationship I ended 1 year ago, along with deep seated abandonment issues & a fear of betrayal. I can't seem to stop thinking and feeling this way. I know that facing my fear dead on is usually the route to take, but I think trusting a man and having him as more than a friend will end in detriment.

I'm in no rush to date again. I am just afraid that this isn't something time can heal. I need positive & truthful opinions to dispute the seeds of fear that have been planted in my head.