I"m reading a book, "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers" that is about accepting all of yourself, including "the shadow" or all the negative stuff that we drag around and try to hide from ourselves and others. Opposites like good and bad or love and hate are pairs on a continuum that come together. You can't have one without the other. Maybe if you can find a copy of that book, that might help you.

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