Divorce would be awful for the teens but having no internet would be OK?

Meaning, internet access is not a high priority requirement of a modern teen?

BigMama, I think your problem is due to your comparing his current status with his prior status. You should be comparing his current status with some reasonable expectations.

To make an analogy... I would not want to live with an alcoholic, period, so if somebody tells me that he drinks a lot but less than before, I would congratulate him on his progress but stay away.