(((beauflow))) Send 'em my way I will listen!

I am learning to stand my ground no matter the outcome. I am tired of being my ex's whipping boy. She has her issues and I have mine. I am working on mine and she is working on hers. But I am no longer allowing myself to sulk and get depressed when she feels the need to remind me of my wrongs. I remind her that I gave her all I had; and what I had and who I am was not enough for her.
One day I hope my daughter will understand why we split up. Right now I think she is hurting and I know she does not want anyone to know her parents split...but she is discovering that many of her classmates parents have either split or are on marriage 2 or 3. Hopefully that will give her some measure of comfort.