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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
You at least are able to develop an emotional bond without being made to feel guilty about the absence of sex? I guess that's good news. Hopefully we can figure out what's the matter with us.
Although I see we're from different countries and I don't know if in America if anyone would let you get away with having a relationship with no sex (they would just force or guilt you into it or leave it seems) unless they are asexual perhaps. But then, I don't know much about culture in Norway...are they less sex obsessed over there?
And I agree with kissing...I have to cover my eyes if I'm watching TV or a movie.
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Yes!
We did have sex the first year or so, but not the last 2-3. For me I think sex becomes an issue when I start to bond emotionally. He understands and says he'd rather be with me and not have sex than be with someone else, even if it's for life. They're not less sex obsessed here (I've never been to the U.S. myself though), but most people are more liberal. Maybe they can obsess less about it because their religion and values are less sexually frustrating.
Yeah, haha!
I thought I was the only one my age still doing that. I can endure short kisses, not long ones.