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Originally Posted by winter4me
You are both getting something, unhealthy but something powerful, out of this roller coaster. What does it DO for you? You may have to just go cold turkey, detox from this relationship. And, encounters are avoidable---do talk to a school counselor, bluntly.
Have you considered telling your husband? Painful, could be a loss but could be the way out also----
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I do see your point in talking to some official in school because they might be able to exert some power to prevent the guy in question from contacting Sally. I do not think this is a necessary course of action because I think she will be able to handle her situation by herself (there is nothing in the account to suggest she won't manage, eventually), but sure, it is a possible course of action.
What would be a "way out" if she tells her husband? I might see some value in telling the husband along the lines of deepening the connection between Sally and the husband or what not, regardless of the guy, possibly, but how would the husband's knowledge of Sally's situation prevent the guy in question from approaching Sally? Or do you expect Sally's husband to somehow intervene on Sally's behalf, and if so, won't this step make an already drama-filled and complex situation even more complex?