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Originally Posted by Rorisan
My boyfriend and I have a complicated past, but have worked through most of it. There is one problem, his family hates me. They think that I am a witch (think Halloween and Satan and all of that). His mom just died recently, and I have had to cede a lot of time to his family.
Every time things change on the account of his family - for whatever reason - all I hear is that I am not worth his time. That is not what he is saying - he has never been anything but supportive. I just can't help going off on my own insecurities. I am trying to talk about it here so that I do not go off on him.
He loves me, and he's trying, but I am having a hard time getting a grip. I'm working on getting on assistance in getting a therapist, but until then, this is all I got that is not woefully destructive.
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Hey, never let anyone tell you or make you believe you're not worthy! I get the feeling, my boyfriend's family doesn't like me at all. Anyone of them (hmm, maybe except the dog but I can't be that sure). And it's driving me crazy, I've never been anything but nice to them. My boyfriend loves me and he supports me in front of them and when we're alone, so the problem is not in your relationship and you should feel good about that. Just try to be nice to them. I don't know about your bf's parents, but my bf's folks are very good at pretending to like me. If yours are like that too, then just pretend to like them until you don't have to see them no more. If they talk bad to you, just try not to say anything because this will only make it worse. I'm not sure if I helped, but send me back so I know how it's going!