I get nervous too that my T could read my posts here if she chose to. I know that she doesn't have time to do that. I wonder when she even really has time for her own life - she works 6 days a week and writes to me on her off day and in the morning and evening before and after going to the office.

She knows my sn because I told her what it is, and I have told her that I post here. Sometimes I tell her about some of what I post here and what I learned. Once she expessed interest in what I told her I posted and in the feedback I got (since I told her I got some good feedback), and I hesitantly sent her the link to that thread, and she read it. That was so scary! But it turned out ok.

It particularly makes me nervous if I post about her (one small part of that is that I am embarassed for her to know that she is referred to as "T" just like many people refer to their therapists - it really seems to minimize her as a person, I guess, although it also protects her identity and confidentiality). I worry that she might take exception to what I say, and disagree or be offended. And also that she will catch me wallowing or whining, and she would not be pleased that I engage in that stuff.