Me and Sarah just had our second marriage counsling session. I like it, but it is difficult to talk about some issues. Today we talked about the emotional affair. I said that I was still hurt and angry about it. That it upset me enough that I was going to leave the releationship. She was appoligetic and told me I had the right to feel upset. I was having some internal conflicts and it helps to have my feelings validated. On one hand I think a spouse should have implicit trust that thier spouse is faithful and one the other hand I felt like I don't have that trust. We are trying to work things out. I think the counseling helps.