Hi! I really think you need to have a professional check you out to see what might be going on. Some of the disorders have overlapping symptoms. It does sound like you have something that could be labeled and the tests bear that out. But to get official diagnoses and therefore start getting treatment, then you need to see a therapist and/or a psychiatrist. Please do so. You sound like you're really struggling and these problems are affecting your life in a very negative way.

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