I do not know if the man that I am in a new relationship with is just not that into me or if he is using control of when he makes time for me. At first we we could not be separated. Now I ask when we will see each other because it has been about a week since I seen him.He says how about tomorrow because it will be cold and snowing, but every night I do not see him it is ok weather and because he goes to the gym for 2hours.What does that suppose to make me feel about this relationship and there will be no future if I have to chase him around.I don't do that and I won't be last on your list.Am I being selfish or what is this?

Then I had made appt to get my tubes tied because I think I am done having kids due to my mental illness and I am far from any new marriage.He tells me no I need to cancel that appt because I should not do that.Ok that is confusing mixed signals and I cannot play this mind game or whatever it is?

Another thing is I always have to go to his place and he never takes time to come to my place?What do I do with this guy?Is there any hope for the relationship?Is this a form of abuse?I need help because I have not taken someone serious since my ex.I would love some feedback because I am lost and not thinking correctly because my illnesses.