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Originally Posted by BonnieG2010
I'd say the second proposal: hold your peace and try moving out of the house as soon as possible.
You can tell your brother how much you think she is unfair and how much you believe in him and support him.
And maybe look for an apartment together. Why not? You will still have family with you, but the family you appreciate most
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It might turn out that way, though for now he may be planning to move in with some friends and I can't say I blame him. I was pretty close to just packing up a bag and going homeless before my mom finally got off my back some when she realized the PTSD, anxiety and depression are serious but she shouldn't respect someones space out of pity and keep nagging and nagging at my brother just because he's not as screwed up as I am. I am pretty much waiting on SSI before I try and decide what to do, not sure even with that I'd be able to afford moving out.
And she wonders why my sister left home first chance she got even though it ended up being a disaster...to get away from her crap basically, now she gets along better with my mom but she doesn't live with her either.