My t never has music playing. There are no receptionists. He sets up the room with our dolls. Sometimes he goes to the bathroom - I have become amazingly comfortable with that! It is really nice not dealing with receptionists. And having an absolutely stable environment every week.

You do a LOT of work between sessions, way more than the average bear. It seems like you would benefit from a T who is now more attuned to you, rather than off doing her own thing.