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Originally Posted by sweetthinker
I am just wondering what people might suggest for the following scenario. What do you do when you ask your partner what they might like for dinner, and they say they are open. They never end up having any opinion, even after 13 years. Then, when you end up chosing something, and it is a bad choice, they do not take any responsibility? What do you do with a partner who never makes choices for the relationship, and never takes any responsibility for choices made in the relationship? Am I wrong to feel extremely frustrated with a person like that?
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Well, in my opinion, it's not that bad for you to decide sometimes. Other times, he should decide. But if you decide something when he says he's open to all kind of ideas, and then he doesn't like it, you have every right to be mad. I suggest you talk to him and then see if it works out. Explain what exactly is that makes you so frustrated.