She's going to drive me to drink I swear! I was talking to the son that lives with her about a family issue that came up with my mother. She went off on me! I do not know what has happened to her. I did not raise her this way and I do not like it. I do not know where this attitude has come from!

My concern is that my daughter can sometimes be thoughtless. My fault entirely, I was raised in an oppressive household and did not want my children raised that way. Somehow we went from voicing your opinions with respect to this current behavior. And she can take something out of context these days and hold a grudge. My husband's feelings are valid, but I'd rather keep the peace than let them go at it and hurt one another's feelings.

She made a comment two years ago to my husband that cut him to the bone. It is still raw, so when she does stuff like this he has a very short fuse. I've tried to explain to her why he's so hurt, but I think by trying to save her feelings (because if she realized, she would feel horrible) I minimized how much she hurt him.