yeah, what rainbow said. I'm having a rough few days and do not want to cyber stalk him, and was thinking that it would be nice to look at his web site if he had one. I know he's on facebook, but I also know that boundaries are a big deal to me and I will feel worse if I look him up on facebook. At one point my MIL showed me some flyer that one of her NCJW groups had, with his photo on it, because he was one of the speakers. Feeling like a giant needy baby that I wish I'd kept it now.