My husband has been doing a lot of work over the past few years and has really been integrating everyone. Where before they would each take turns trying to "drive", now they're all a team, but he's the driver. They still help in the background, but they work together instead of one at a time. Or at least that's how he describes it.

I have to admit, I kinda miss everybody. They still peek out every now and again, when he's really stressed out or tired or something. But we don't have long talks like we used to...We all got along really well (or at least most of us did). I'm glad my husband is getting better and that there's no conflict between different alters. But I miss talking to everyone and getting their take on what was going on. I always knew if things got bad I could talk to Jonathan or Jonny or JT and we could all work it out together. I always told me husband I loved him "singly and in aggregate" - all of him, together or separate.

I know they're all still there. They have always been part of him and they still are part of him and he is all them together. It's a good thing that everyone is pulling together and working as a team under his "leadership" (not sure that's the word I want!). Integration/teamwork has been his goal for quite some time, and he's finally getting there. It think it's great, but I will never forget each and every one of him I spoke with. They are all special to me - as individuals and as one unified Jon.