be very careful. If you already know this makes you feel like an object then then it might not be the best choice for you. Some guys like **** and others do not. we all have preferences. It is not up to her to decide what she wants for you to receive. If you tried it and don't like it then there is not much of a need to try it again. If how ever you have not tried it you might like it, or just the thought of it may be enough to you from going somewhere you are not supposed to go. We all have boundaries and if we push our own boundaries then we only hurt ourselves. If we allow others to push them then we hurt ourselves and it affects the way we see the person we are with. That kind of emotional hurt my friend doesn't leave when the person you are with moves on. If things don't work out w/ you two the feeling of being used and allowing it stays w/ you forever.

That is just my very one sided opinion. Things that have happened to me cause me to feel this way and may not necessarily be true for you.