Suzy it must even worse when you are rejected by your husband. I'm not rejected by my husband, I'm rejecting myself as I don't like myself. I know it's not easy when it come's to over eating. Eating out of bordom is very common. If you want to lose weight maybe you can join Rhapsody group who posted a message to me in the beginning of this thread. I just don't know what other advice I can give you. I wish I could be more helpful.