They are not in each others lives but they live a few houses away so they could be in each others lives in the future. Plus it won't take t long to figure out who she is as she knows I am dating someone from that area and t was asking me a lot of questions about her family- how many siblings etc. I don't want to lie to t but I want to protect my partner. Also t will probably be worried about her own privacy. My partner is not to happy about me being in therapy as she wants me to talk to her and not a stranger.