"I didn't make myself clear. Kinda had a feeling I hadn't"

I think we've both been online long enough to know its WAY too easy not to be clear online...... unintentionally.

And, sadly, for some, intentionally.

Maybe everyone needs to get their paws burnt to learn. Or maybe not. Whatever.

Good post Tomi, thanks for being so encouraging and supportive. I hope your path leads to the light soon, you certainly deserve it