In my oppinion your t shouldn't have said so quickly that this wouldn't be good for you! I could see if there was something going on where you were on so much it was interfering with your life in some way, but to dismiss it right away just wouldn't makeme feel very good. I think connections are connections whether they're online or not. A very good friend of mine is someone I met on here and we are together on the forum as well as communicating offline by e-mail. She's every as bit as "real" as my other two friends who live in the same building I do. So I'd say that if you want to feel free to keep posting and just see how you like it.