I do feel like he is verbally abusive towards me when he's "IN CRISIS" and I hate myself for letting him get away with it. What I really hate is when he comes back from his 'T' telling me that she agrees he's right etc. At the moment he's sleeping on the couch as our bed broke and the spareroom is to depressing, it's like a store room (he's the one that's turned it into a storeroom) and apparently the house is a S**T TIP ! I'm too lazy and don't care for him apparently