CantExplain--Yes, he's suggesting I get out more. The last time he told me that, I became a lunch buddy & best friend with my neighbor lady w/ the stalking, sexually inappropiate, lying husband. It became a rather ugly when she found out. We are not friends any more, but have finally managed to be civil to each other. I have deep trust issues, & it's rather hard to make friends or be part of a social group when you're afraid to trust.