(((((((((( likelife )))))))))) Talk to your T about it; the way will be made surprisingly smooth for you.

when I read your post a song started running in my head.

“The problem is all inside your head,” T said to me, "the answer is easy if you take it logically. I’d like to help you in your struggle to be free; there must be fifty ways to leave your [transference] mother."

T said, “It’s really not my habit to intrude; furthermore, I hope my meaning won’t be lost or misconstrued; but I’ll repeat myself at the risk of being crude - there must be fifty ways to leave your [transference] mother."

You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

T said, “It grieves me so to see you in such pain; I wish there was something I could do to make you smile again”
I said, “I appreciate that... and would you please explain? about the fifty ways?”
T said, “Why don’t you just go home and sleep on it tonight, and I believe that in the morning you’ll begin to see the light”
She declined to hug me, and I realized she probably was right; there must be fifty ways to leave your [transference] mother.

You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free