Yeah, I got that feeling too. However, T talking with my partner and agreeing on a phone session without telling me, would be enough for me to end the therapy... No matter he 'just' listened to my partner's concerns. Maybe it's just me but I need my T to be on my side 100%, NO SECRETS. (trust is still a very new and frightening concept for me). If he knows he's talking to someone I know I would except him to tell me (even if the person wants to enter his own therapy with him). My T= mine.