Thank you for you reply Yes ... he cheated on his wife , and I do understand that he can go the same to me . I never asked him to move in , and honestly I am trying to end this nightmare every week. Without arguments, I don't like to argue ... trying to talk to him nicely about our life and that I am not happy . He knows I am not , he is asking me to wait . But wait for what ??? I understand that leaving family it's not an easy step , no matter how miserable he was with her , he lived with her , he married her , he had a child with her , and another thing ... I know about her only from what he told me , but ... who knows ... I introduce him to my big family , all family events - he is invited , I am not even talking about the fact that I let him in my kids life . And what is from his side ? I never met any of his friends - he is saying he doesn't have one, relatives live in different state but still , I never had a chance to talk to them , and I feel like I am sitting in his " closet" and it makes me feel uncomfortable . When his daughter is sick his wife doesn't want to take care of her, so she calls him and tells that he had to take her overnight . Because she is not letting him to bring his daughter over to my house he has to take her to Hotel . I know he is telling the truth , because he always texts me his room number and room ph #. Even this drives me crazy , I don't understand why she can't or how she is even let's her sick baby instead staying home be at hotel all night , while she is getting rest from her at home ... Everything in that family is weird , and I don't want to judge anyone but I just start feeling that they both have some mental issues and they are eventually will make me same way ...