Dave, don't you think when one is violated so is the other? I mean, who do you trust the most if not the ones you love most dearly?

I understand you completely.
<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.