I guess the need for being social is that we are social beings naturally. Could you
maybe be expecting too much from social activity? Your question is for me a difficult one because I feel that so many here try so hard to be helpful and concerned about others, and maybe it's because we're all fighting the same illness.
I hope you will find the forum helpful. Please try to relax a little and decide to
take things a little lighter and let the things that are bothersome roll right off your shoulders like water off a duck's back.
People do generally mean well, Tru Butterfly; only occasionally does the forum have
someone who is antisocial or paranoid or whatever. Even then, everyone tries to
be tolerant, in my view.
Take care; moving away from a forum for a short time sometimes relieves the negativity you experience, too, but it can be helpful in many ways to continue to post when you would like. Everyone will try to sympathize and help, generally.
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