This past week I caught my husband replying to adds from other men for sex. I don't even know how to begin to process this. He denies that he is gay, bisexual, or even curious. He said he was doing it for fun and that it is all just a game. These men live locally in our area. What am I to think. I look at him and all I see is a pervert. I'm almost positive that this has been going on for a while. I really don't know what to think, what to do, or anything. Worse yet the adds that I found were from Thanksgiving day while I was at work and he was home with our 2 year old son. How gross and perverted. He offered to host for some of these men. I just don't understand. He has tried to blame me, his father, his upbringing... If anyone has advise for this one I could sure use it.