Everyone telling you to forget about her is easier said than done. I know - been there, done that. It's hard to get out of bed in the morning. But, one day, you are going to wake up and go about your day, and without even realizing it, you're going to feel better. And then the realization is going to hit you that you are not thinking about her anymore - haven't since you woke up and set about your day. But the greatest realization will be knowing that 'she doesn't love you - and that's perfectly okay - because you don't love her either'. You've finally caught up to where she was 2 days, 2 weeks, or 2 months ago, and you're going to feel great, and liberated, and ALIVE again. It's just going to happen. It's something you have no control over. Think I'm making this up? You are not the only person who ever felt this way. Literally trillions of people have felt this way at one time or another since mankind first walked this earth. Someone even put exactly how you are eventually going in an article - 'Upon Realizing You No Longer Love Your Ex' - Google it.
But the best thing you are going to feel is relief. Relief that you didn't do something stupid that you would later regret - whatever that may be - contacting her, bothering her, making an *** of yourself, hurting yourself, whatever. And that's when you are going to start enjoying life again.
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