Hi there. I am new here as of today. This looks like a wonderful community and I'm glad I found it.

Beginning with a new therapist is like beginning a new job in that the initial period can be so uncomfortable...

But I do really like her. I searched hard for what I want: a psychologist who does psychodynamic therapy. I have been in therapy/counseling for many years off and on. I feel that I have not only not had the type of therapy I need but also I have not talked about some important things and I am committed this time to the process. The first session was good and I unexpectedly felt I would be able to work with her and feel comfortable/safe with her. She is gentle, kind, direct, encouraging.

While I still feel that way, I find myself avoiding the issue(s) that I am there for. Have only had 3 visits and one was one I requested after a difficult few days. I don't want to avoid the issues but I am worried about my ability to talk about them. It is hard for me to talk much period, but even harder to talk about the truly important things.

I also am worried about becoming too attached to her.

So.. looking for support and suggestions, friends.