So one of my alters Anna switches with me frequently when I am with or talking to my BF. At first I thought this was because she likes him. But now I am wondering if it is to protect me from him.

As this evening I went to call him and was nervous because I had to politely confront him about something. And right now I am VERY scared of men in general. (That might be coming from the other alter?) Anyway partway through the conversation Anna popped out. BF and I can be talking about anything... and Anna will come. BF and I are having communication issues and I am trying to figure out if he is belittleing me.

Is it possible for an alter to protect you from a person??? And what do I do? I mean my own BF!!! I want to work through things!! Not just drop him!