The sad thing is that we are told we should reach out for support from those around us. People seem to lack compassion for those who suffer with emotional illnesses ( refuse to use the word mental ) . We are looked at as weak people and others think we are just seeking attention. I for one have learned the hard way I should have just kept my problems to myself because now I'm alone. Sadly I think either way , tell or not not tell you end up having to deal with your issues by yourself when the thing you need most is support from others.