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Old Mar 24, 2013, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl View Post
You know, always worrying about someone leaving you will not stop them leaving you. These worries are pointless as all they do is fill you with sadness and make you feel bad. Absolutely nothing you do will stop them leaving you if they want to go - but by being fun, kind, loving and relaxed will make you too irresistible to consider leaving!
Sometimes people do leave partners who are irresistible, but still, being fun, kind, loving, and relaxed is the best you can do. It is not foolproof because nothing is foolproof, but it is the best advice you can ever get. Ever.