We have 2 like this also. T talks to them and they always fight with her. They get into screaming matches a lot. But they think its fun to get our t all riled up. She gets mad at them, they get mad at her, they just have fun. I am not sure if they will ever change much. T says they have had a few deep serious discussions before ( i dont recall them) and says they have good hearts down deep and theyre just acting out their pain. Im not so sure about that.