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Originally Posted by ECHOES
You partner can think what she wants, and her statement only reflects that she doesn't understand therapy and possibly feels like it is a threatening/competing relationship. Would this extend to other non-sexual intimate relationships you have?
Why not just be upfront with your T that your gf lives near where your T lives, or where you think she lives (if she doesn't know that you know where she lives). I find that getting things out in the open is much easier on everyone.
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She is pretty much jealous of everything, texts, phonecalls, fb- everything. I have assured her I am not going any where and will never cheat or look at anyone else as long as I am with her.
I will see if t brings it up this week before I bring anything up but I think she is curious about who this girl is.
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Originally Posted by Perna
I don't think you can get there from here :-) I think you have to tell both about the other and let them decide what their own protection/privacy issues are instead of you doing it for them.
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THis is very good advice and it is one of my vices- trying to protect everyone else
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Originally Posted by QuietCat
The only thing I can think about is: T had an affair!?!
I would be fascinated if I had such details about my T.
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She had an affair years ago and hurt her husband so badly he did something to himself- he lived but it was a scandal and I think that is why she became a t