Ok, had session with T today , asked him about Integration. What he said made sense - He does not use the term or idea - said the idea of seeing someone become all together like normal - he's never seen. He's uses terms such as " blending".
On the supressed memory piece - as to the connction of when the child disociates as a child and the alters as an adult - he related to "roles" that the child as he/she matures into adulthood takes on - like the angry part might in time develop into a mean, abusive adult, the pained hurting part may develop into a self- harmer or drug addict, the need for social contact may develop into the socialite person,etc, and that this happens because the memories/emotions at the time of abuse were supressed. So as the person attempts to live normally he/she takes on these roles. - evrybdy