Hi Aiuto, if he is comming around and having sex with you, then not having time for you. Hes not only a jerk but a really big jerk. If your feeling bad emotionally this is probably the reason. I would defanitley cut him lose, no explanations or phone calls. Please dont let him treat you that way. On the subject of hes not that into you, is a negative statement towards women and not healthy, who cares what he likes hes a creep, theres was a book out called hes not that into you and face it your not into him either. One other thing some people will take advantage of the mentally ill, you need to stay away from him. please.