I read that the term "*****" is not a cuss word in the ancient history goddess world. Lilitih was happy to be one. It was not until when patriacy took the toll and matriarchy got put into the background that the phrase was to become derogotory.
Please read it for yourself. Lilith was interesting.
http://imctwo.csuhayward.edu/apmj/anderson.html
It's paragraph 9 that is interesting as well, but the whole article is enlightening
Some stories about Lilith that will explain reclaiming our power as females and not equating guilt with feminity and shame with feminity. Read more here.
http://books.google.com/books?id=nXl...VuTmCkWbf71IY8
"Independant life loving justice" a quote from it.