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Originally Posted by purpledaisy
,,,I've tried to keep my mind off of the fact that my relationship with my son has fallen to crap, but it isn't easy.
I'm still thinking, "Is this how the rest of my life will be? I have a son out there, but I don't know what's going on in his life, and I'm sitting in the same spot on the loveseat, making no progress in my own life."
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You are not alone. Empty nest is especially hard when it's been just the 2 of you all his life. Nows a good time to redefine your next phase of life. Get out with your own friends and make plans. Your son needs to see you getting on with your own life. I know its just a few weeks but the longer you wait the harder it gets. In the mean time if you're worried, you know where he lives, I'd pop in on him just for a few min with oh say some choc chip cookies, visit a little and see if you can make plans to have dinner sometime soon. Are you willing to include his gf?