Okay so now there's some harsh discussion about it..

Meds are almost always a quick fix, most of them treating only symptoms and not the cause... And depending on the dosage, they can Zone you out...

Life Man, takes it's toll too.. You work on avoiding, Easing the cause, however there is no real treatment for the symptoms.. If you happen to hit bottom, you could be just as Zoned out as with the meds...

and personally been so sensitive to my environment, I get knocked around so easily, and i find it difficult to open up to anyone, Especially my wife... In recent years, the knocks have been happening more and more (Mostly because we've been living in an apartment on my mothers property !!!!!!!) I've recently made an offer on a property about 30 Km's away. of course the last month has been HELL, waiting for the banks, and everyone else to go over my financial history,etc. And i'm still waiting for info if the Bond has been approved.... Of course, nothing has been said to 'Mother', just in case this falls through like it has before... This is one confrontation i just can stand to think about...

I'm hoping that putting the Wife in her own Home, will calm her down. And having a place of my own where i can do as i please, I'm hoping it will help me keep calm...