Iliketherain, this guy is not the guy for you. I don't know if he is narcissistic but what he is doing is cruel beyond words. Cruel to you and to every other girl he is with. He does not deserve to be with anyone and You do not deserve to be treated this way. then he has the gall tells you he is hurting????? The only place he's hurting is in his pants. That's why he's cheating. He has not even started to think about how this is affecting you, never mind all the other cruel things he has said to you. And he tells you he is hurting. He is the most selfish self-centred - did I say selfish person ever. I wouldn't give him another millisecond time of thought. There are much kinder guys out there, and I'm certain there is one who would treat you with respect and dignity, that is what you deserve.

You might like to get some help before dating again and find out that you are a valuable human being, worthy of being treated like the fine person you are. Talk to someone who will build your self-esteem and help you see that its ok to expect respect from the person who says they love you. Don't take nothing less than that.