Hi twiks,

Sometimes we hold ourselves at unreasonable levels of expectations. What makes them unreasonable? We aren't "cool enough", "popular" nor do we fit into the particular crowd that intrigues us, we aren't "wealthy", our looks are still pretty "imperfect", and/or our personality feels a little "off" to those that we're interested in. Probably due to anxiety.

In situations like these, I always advise people to go out and do what actually interests them. Don't just follow the girls that interest you ~ That's a mistake! Do what YOU like to do!! Trust me. You will very soon find girls that interest you either doing the same thing or finding a lot of interest in what you can do. And romance will soon bloom.

Just be patient ~ it is right around the corner for you....I can sense it!