kmm, if this is bothering you, and if it is affecting your relationships with other people, then it would be a good idea to talk to a professional about it. Even if it is "normal teenage stuff", there is no reason for you to have to suffer through shaking hands and nausea when you are with someone, and a therapist or counselor can help you learn skills to deal with your feelings so you can be more comfortable around other people.

If you can talk to your parents and ask their help in finding a therapist, that is terrific. If you don't feel like you can talk to them, then you can talk to a school counselor and they should be able to help you.

No matter whether you have APD or not, you are hurting, and you should not have to suffer like that.

Good luck, and let us know how you are doing.
*hugs*
mj