Gma is right. Our minds tell us lies. And those women who say those things to you are "dry drunks." They have no right to be so judgmental! YOUR business is none of THEIR business! They should work their own program and leave yours alone! People like that infuriate me. It's time they did another 4th and 5th step!
Don't let them drive you away. If you do that, then THEY WIN. Don't let them win. You need AA --- just don't pay any attention to them. Sit with the guys. They're more fun to talk to anyway! LOL
Like AA says, it's principals before personalities. Just take what you like and leave the rest. But don't give up on it. You'll regret it if you do.

God bless and let us know how things go. Hugs, Lee