well, we are all different. For me, a person's gotta do what they have to do. Period. I have become very black and white and it's what works for me. So my opinion reflects that.

but that's all it is, an opinion. I just logged in looking for james, and couldn't resist commenting on this.

but in the end, it's only opinions. Some are strong, and some are not.
Some come across as judgemental, and some are really understanding.

I'm at an opionated and judgemental time in my life, cuz that's what I have to be right now for myself. sounds dumb, huh? but that's why I can't be on a site like this and I prolly should have not responded. I really have no intention of staying here. I was just looking for James.

but I figured you might get this, so I am responding to you.

the reason I am judgemental right now is cuz I am not going to let anything throw me off the course that I am on. understanding is not worth it to me, I am protective over the course that I am on. If that makes me an asshole, then it's worth it at least, cuz I have to worry about myself first.

oh well......

hope you have a great run of it, Venus.

I'm off. Won't be responding anymore, and I don't get the notifications either.

hope you find what you are looking for.

bye.

Dan