My son moved out Dec1,1212 with his girlfriend and are living together about an hours drive from my home. At first they were doing their laundry here the first 2 weekends. I was such a worrier, but I did have reason to too. He is in college, worked at a job being a cook making subs, and after a 12 hour shift, he was in a car accident and ended up in the hospital for MRI and catscan. He ended up being ok, but who knows this head injury may lead to other things. He refuses to listen to me, any type of advice is shunned by him. So I don't give advice anymore. I think his girlfriend think I'm an overbearing mother, although I am the farthest thing from it. He never calls me, He did say he got a new job about 3 weeks ago at a drug store. Because of the car accident he has o ride a bike. So as you can see, I'm also a empty nester!!! I do have my husband of 17 years, but no one in the day to talk to so I'm online Skyping or other things like this forum. I don't have a job but see a pshyciatrist and T. I know what it feels like to be away from someone who was around for 22 years and is gone so fast.