Part of my thinking is, there is no cure. Just coping and learning control. How is this different than most people in their lives except that ours might not be as easily learned? Well even in that case well, such is life, learning to deal with it and cope regularly with everything that comes your way. For me, it's just something I've got to do regardless of whether I have BPD, AVPD, Schizophrenia, OCD or any other thing.. I am what I am. Screw BPD I'm going to live life! XD