You are certainly not alone in your feelings. I suspect Hallmark would make some money if they were able to market Mother's Day cards with this theme--but of course, I guess most folks would just not send any card at all.

I don't know how old you are, but I gather you are still living at home and are aching for independence. In all fairness to her, she might be trying to help. My mother is that way (knowing everything) but she has some serious psychological issues. So, yours might have some issues, too. Why do you think she is slamming the cabinet doors?

Are you in therapy? That's a great place to deal with this kind of issue. And, of course, you can vent here, also.